Committing yourself to be on a nofap journey for 90 days or for a lifetime is easy. What’s difficult is staying on your commitment.
By the way, how difficult is it to stay in your commitment to be successful on your nofap journey and never relapse?
I mean, how hard that could be!
Let me tell you something.
If you want to travel the whole world on your feet, that could be easier compared to being successful in Nofap.
Nofap relapse is most likely because there is no government to stop us, there is no high council to force us on our journey, and pornography materials are everywhere.
Nofap is something that we have to do on our own.
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The behavior of a needy person is different than the person who is independent.
It is not only about financial independence that is attractive but emotional independence as well.
A needy person seeks attention, validation from others, and from someone whom he values more than himself.
I have tried so many nofap strategies, I have read so many books and watched videos on how to quit porn addiction for good, but not a single nofap strategy worked.
My willpower is low and every time I succeed in nofap for a few days or for a few months, I relapse for some reason.
I feel like I am a loser and I can’t do anything in life.
I feel hopeless and I go to bed crying every night. The inability to control my urges and frustrates me, the inability to quit porn addiction for good creates self-loathing and I don’t know what to do now.
I feel depressed and when I read all the successful people in nofap forums, I feel hopeful for some time, but soon it disappears.
Why did God make me like this? Why do I have no self-control?
So, just reading a single article will not stop my porn addiction forever.
There is no nofap strategy that works for me…
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When we start nofap, these pathways stop receiving the flow of chemicals. Moreover, the brain thinks there is something wrong with you for which you are not receiving the chemicals anymore.
For the brain, it is important, it is important to survival and because of this, it creates urges.
You have the right to be happy; you are not worthless and miserable than you were before; you deserve happiness because you have the capability to change. You are worthy of this life. This is self-worth.