Nofap

I relapse over and over again.

I want to quit pornography addiction forever, but everytime I am on a streak, I relapse for some reason.

Once I relapse, I watch pornography more than before.

My productivity also goes down, and I don’t know what to do now.

I am losing all my hopes, and this addiction is killing me, day by day, night after night.

I think I don’t have the willpower to continue the nofap journey.

Once I did a long streak, and I became happy and productive. My life changed, and success seemed like within a reaching distance.

But, I relapsed, and everything shattered.

I am tired of fighting with this addiction, I am tired of crying at night, and I am tired of facing this bitter reality.

If you are going through these phases of life, then this article is for you.

If you want to quit pornography addiction forever, then this article is for you.

Also, if you want to start your nofap journey for the first time, this article will help you.

First scenario:

There was once a time when you had high ambition, dreams, or goals. You just wanted to prove to the world that you are something, and you have got it in you.

Most of all, you enjoyed your work the most.

There was a fire inside you, and no matter what you did, you were always competitive.

Second Scenario:

Perhaps you don’t know what you want to do in your life. Maybe you were not that competitive since childhood, but that was okay because enjoying the process was everything for you.

Maybe you liked singing, or dancing, or writing but you just enjoyed them while doing it. You never thought it was a potential career opportunity.

Now, after all these years, you don’t find those old activities as enjoyable as before.

Nofap depression is nothing but a period of your nofap journey where you will feel depressed for specific days.
You will be unable to produce any results you expected to do in this stage before starting your journey.
This will result in frustration and sadness simultaneously, and doubts will start to creep inside your mind.
Perhaps, nofap is fake, and whatever you read in those articles and internet posts does not apply to you.
You may also say, nofap is not working because it’s been a long time since you are in nofap, and instead of experiencing all the amazing benefits you read, now you are miserable, numb, unproductive, and sad.
Your moods will change in an instant. Sometimes, you will become over-excited, and sometimes you will burst out crying for no reason.

Committing yourself to be on a nofap journey for 90 days or for a lifetime is easy. What’s difficult is staying on your commitment.
By the way, how difficult is it to stay in your commitment to be successful on your nofap journey and never relapse?
I mean, how hard that could be!
Let me tell you something.
If you want to travel the whole world on your feet, that could be easier compared to being successful in Nofap.
Nofap relapse is most likely because there is no government to stop us, there is no high council to force us on our journey, and pornography materials are everywhere.
Nofap is something that we have to do on our own.

The behavior of a needy person is different than the person who is independent.

It is not only about financial independence that is attractive but emotional independence as well.

A needy person seeks attention, validation from others, and from someone whom he values more than himself.

I have tried so many nofap strategies, I have read so many books and watched videos on how to quit porn addiction for good, but not a single nofap strategy worked.

My willpower is low and every time I succeed in nofap for a few days or for a few months, I relapse for some reason.

I feel like I am a loser and I can’t do anything in life.
I feel hopeless and I go to bed crying every night. The inability to control my urges and frustrates me, the inability to quit porn addiction for good creates self-loathing and I don’t know what to do now.

I feel depressed and when I read all the successful people in nofap forums, I feel hopeful for some time, but soon it disappears.

Why did God make me like this? Why do I have no self-control?

So, just reading a single article will not stop my porn addiction forever.

There is no nofap strategy that works for me…

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